PAIN IS PAIN!

 

When people talk about pain in general they say two things:

1. " That this is so much more pain.." (cause they compare it with their pain) come to a conclusion that they haven't experienced any pain till now.

2. "That's ok..! But you know people go through worst than this.." (cause they again compare with any pain - their's or other's) and come to that conclusion

For the one's saying to themselves that they haven't experienced any and the one's hearing to other's pain and saying that people go through much worst.. or it's a journey of life or it's your beautiful scar:

Let’s be frank – there are actually times when it feels the whole world is falling apart and you feel that the day may or will not pass. You cannot compare your pain to others’ just as your journey or circumstances so why respond with “someone else has it more or worse." 

Pain is pain and is immeasurable when it’s felt because in that moment it feels like the worst pain on earth. Cause it is that for you. No one would have same situation, struggles or circumstances..

Can we not just see pain as pain of anyone? And feel and deal with it as it is supposed to be..! And not tell the ourselves or the other person "someone else has it more or worst"

Can we just say to them that it's pain and someday in your future (idk when may be tomorrow, may be next week, may be next year) your soul will no longer linger

in places where pain exist and to honor their authenticity by our empathy and if nothing just listen what they say and be their home or light house in the dark.

And to ourselves that someday in my future this shall pass and I will feel less pain with a scar that's not pretty but it's mine and has taught me something. And just may be someday even further in future I shall laugh upon this loudly with my friend.. one day for sure..