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FAILING WELL

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Today I saw two small girls playing badminton; a very common game.  The two girls were playing with a lot of effort. Hitting hard with the racket, running for the cork, teaching each other and scolding each other. But they didn’t know how to play they were making small baby steps in learning it.. This continued for days,  2-3 hours each day. Their temperament was motivating.. Even when their cork didn’t hit the racket for this long they keep on playing and telling each other techniques that even the other barely knew (Literal trial and error). And even when they hit the cork, it flew in some other direction rather than where they were targeting.. In spite of this they motivated each other picking up the cork and giving it another try hoping this time somehow it would work and they would learn it.. But even though they didn’t  learnt it they went home happily and satisfied. Smiling cause they played and hoping that they will try again tomorrow and knowing that they will kn...

PAIN IS PAIN!

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  When people talk about pain in general they say two things: 1. " That this is so much more pain.." (cause they compare it with their pain) come to a conclusion that they haven't experienced any pain till now. 2. "That's ok..! But you know people go through worst than this.." (cause they again compare with any pain - their's or other's) and come to that conclusion For the one's saying to themselves that they haven't experienced any and the one's hearing to other's pain and saying that people go through much worst.. or it's a journey of life or it's your beautiful scar: Let’s be frank – there are actually times when it feels the whole world is falling apart and you feel that the day may or will not pass. You cannot compare your pain to others’ just as your journey or circumstances so why respond with “someone else has it more or worse."  Pain is pain and is immeasurable when it’s felt because in that moment it feels like ...